I'm it!

Ok....so I am a virgin to the tag game. I guess at 39 it is amazing that I am a virgin to anything, lol. Thanks Katie for making me feel young again. Alrighty then, here are five things you don't know about me.

1. I met my husband James via a blind date. Who'd of thunk...
2. I did not lose my virginity until I was 19 and it was with my ex spouse.
3. I tried smoking pot only once in my lifetime in the parking lot of a mall after hours. I live dangerously.
4. When I was 17 me and two friends spent the night at a complete strangers house when my girlfriend, who was our driver, got too sauced to drive home. I look back and think what a complete goofus I was for staying at some mans house that I did not know.
5. After I got divorced and before I decided that I wanted a relationship again I used to go on vacation to a friend of mines home and we would go out "trolling" for boys and I had several one night stands (not all in the same night ;-) ). I guess I was living my rebellious teen years in my mid twenties.

Ok...now I guess I need to tag someone else.....Lynn or Stephanie...I guess you are next???


A quick update on Eric...we had our long talk and smacked some sense into him. Apparently though it was short lived as he decided to break his weekend curfew this past weekend. His friend called my ex's house at 230am and asked for Eric then realized he had NOT called his cell phone and hung up. My ex's wife was onto him and managed to call my ex and then he called Eric and he was nailed. While a somewhat small offense it was only about 4 hours after we had our talk with him regarding our rules and of course he already broke one before he has even moved in. My husband and I have been very stressed over the past week dealing with this and after discussing it we are leaning towards not having him move back home unless he proves to us that he has actually grown up and can follow simple rules. I don't think it is too much to ask of an 18 year old young man. He wants to go away to school next fall and he can actually financially work it out then his moving in for only 8 months or so really may be more upsetting to our two little ones than it might be worth. Jacob took awhile to get used to his leaving last time and he is older now so it will be even harder this time. I really pray that Eric does some real thinking on this. Right now his life seems to revolve solely around what Eric wants and needs and his family comes second. Am I being to harsh? I don't think so. I have to protect my little boys and Jake is at a very impressionable age. Eric is being watched closely at his dads so he is being taken care of even if I cannot do it right now.